My A'nt Pang A Colored Woman; A Most Giving Soul
It’s hard to say how different my life would be
Were it not for gentle souls who shared their generosity
A'nt Pang, a Colored woman whose been here and gone
Yet, for as long as I live her legacy will survive.
I will glady tell her story to any who cares to listen
To this day I don't how she came to be called Pang
once it was called that was all that needed to be said
She wasn’t really my aunt, can't even say we were kin
Her and mama were like sisters since they were children.
They were only months apart in age and grew up together.
It seemed fitting I called her aunt, it made me feel closer.
Material things A'nt Pang, like mama never had very much
Yet, selflessly shared that she had, even if times were tough
With four young mouths to feed, she didn’t get much help
As many mothers did then, only looked to family and self
She worked menial jobs, did the best a single parent could.
Instilling in them a sense of pride and along with self-respect
Over the years Aunt Pang’s home became a refuge of sort
For deadbeats, vagabonds, and few ne’er do wells alike
A few came to spend a night, weeks or months they stayed
Knowing they’d get a free meal, and a roof over their head
Taking advantage of her generosity any way they could
Their only contributions were to help with the chores
Not all were children there were grownups as well
The way few carried on at times it was hard to tell
Never heard this generous soul gripe of complain
Knowing well, some were too lazy to do anything.
In thinking back on all those years, I often wonder
How could she so willing share that which she had?
When most who stayed seemed not to spend a dime
To buy food, or help with any other household expense.
I had no further to look than within my own situation
To a single time of when my family was in desperation
I remember in ‘47 when a tornado blew us away
While the Red Cross help to rebuild our shack
She unselfishly gave Lil’ Ma and me a place to stay.
In looking back, she was more than an aunt or cousin
I began to look upon her as being my third mother
And saw her children as being my sisters and brothers.
In June of‘84 when mama got sick she took her in
And had a stroke January ’93 would’ve gladly then.
In, March of ‘97 my one and only child was born
It had been nearly four years since mama died
In her absence I was glad she was alive to see him
For what turned out to be the one and only time.
Hardly more than a year passed her time came to go
Heaven was her reward for being such a generous soul
Yet she left us rich with her memories and her legacy
A gentle soul whose unselfishness knew no boundaries
Yet she made a big difference in lives of those she touched
Never so many among us owed one soul so very much.
In looking back on her life, a lesson I’ve come to learn
Generosity is a selfless act without expecting in return.
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